[05:36, 06/01/2020] Unique: Still
Time stands still.
In my mind.
I’ve woken up daily for five months, hoping that everything between us would heal.
I’ve checked my phone every night, hoping you’ll be in touch.
(You used to touch my mind all the time)
Today I woke up and accepted our friendship died last year.
I know you said you wanted to remain friends, and I know I wasn’t sure about that. (Felt weird)
I know our friendship no longer exists, like the woolly mammoth it walked out one day to forage for food and never returned.
And I accept that.
I know you wanted more than anything to keep our connection.
It was so pure, real, needed!
Our bonsai tree requires care and attention. The leaves have long since faded and the roots refuse to absorb the nutrients.
I remember watching a leaf drop, only one.
The next day they had all fallen.
I remember when we were in touch with each other, every day/night.
Then every few days.
Then at least once a week.
Today I woke up and accepted our friendship faded back in 2019.
The moment that thought was let through the acceptance trial, I cried profusely.
You saved me.
I’ll always feel honoured you found me when you did.
As I write this on the 6th of January 2020, my heart hurts. My tears are fast and constant, that blinking still leaves my vision blurry.
You’ll remain a continuous thought in my mind. I’ll always wonder how you’re doing and I’ll hope that ‘you’re okay.’
It took me months to erase our conversation on WhatsApp. Remember our first exchange and then compare it to our last – I apologise.
I take peace in knowing I was there for you when you needed me.
I relish the comfort in the belief ‘Que Sera!’
The future is not mine to see.
With you, I wanted to see everything.
But whatever will be, will be.
Our universe connected us in ways we never knew existed.
I appreciate the sentiment when you initiate contact and send a message via WhatsApp.
Seeing a video specifically for our conversation is alien.
Hearing a voice note from you, where you state my name is alien.
Although, those lil messages I found sweet.
I still miss our bond from day one.
I’ll never block your number, the conversation will always be open by phone. (I acknowledge ours is borderline extinction)
Our universe advised me not to become so cold.
I know you’ll need me soon.
The ice steals from fear, and my anxiety was losing you.
I woke up this morning and accepted you left back in 2019
I woke up, and my heartfelt heavy with magic.
I have no regrets.
There are people on this earth that completely cut off.
I know that’s not us.
I’m saying wherever you are, wherever I go, you will always have space here.
I’m putting this into the universe because I trust our complexities.
I trust my heart.
I trust my choices.
I believe in my purpose.
I have strength.
I have energy.
I have a healthy mind.
I have scope.
I have insight.
I have unique abilities.
I have my heartbeat.
Until we reconnect
Farewell my forever sweet avocado 🥑